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This is my favorite quote I always forget. And while I have seen it before, I saw it today and started trembling. Then the tears came. 

This quote always catches me off guard, but it's especially moving when you've had a hard year, isn't it? When your year has been full of no-s and tears and waiting. 

I embraced this quote at the beginning of 2016, and my year WAS full of things that have never been. It was full of infertility diagnoses, failed IUIs, an unplanned-for photography business -- things I had never before experienced. Good and bad. The old cliche of blessings in disguise. 

But I am learning to embrace it. To be open to what the Things That Have Never Been are teaching me, and they're teaching me a lot. 

I'm hoping that my Things That Have Never Been in 2017 are more blessings and less disguise, but like my nephew with his Target bag wings, I'm jumping full force into what this year holds for me. I hope you join me -- and thank you -- for standing with me in 2016. 

Giving Kids a Fighting Chance

Treat people as if they were what they ought to be, and you help them become what they’re capable of being.
— John Wolfgang von Goethe

I recently had the honor of photographing Fighting Chance Boxing Club in North Minneapolis. 

I got hooked on the place.

The mission is "To effect positive change in North Minneapolis youth through boxing and physical fitness." The gym also partners with Matter and others to feed the kids healthy meals -- something they started doing after noticing they were sending the kids away hungry at the end of the night.

This doesn't just sound good on paper -- it works.

You see, if you start to Google North Minneapolis, it autofills the rest of the search bar with "shooting."

Nearly 50 percent of North Minneapolis lives below the poverty line, according to data from the Minnesota Compass.

But there is so much more to this vibrant community than statistics.

I pulled up to the gym as dusk started to roll in and saw these kids work with their coaches in the dreamy light of the sun setting.

It was an unseasonably warm day, so there was almost as much work being done outside as in.

It smelled like rubber and sweat. Kids were smiling, laughing and shadow boxing with determination. 

I watched as neighborhood kids -- boys AND girls -- helped each other put wraps and gloves on, shadow boxed and got in the ring with coaches.

And I thought, "What if this wasn't here?" This gym that is filled to the brim with kids from 8 to 18...these kids might be on the street with more of a chance to be part of the statistics, the Google autofill.

Every single day, approximately 13 young people in the United States are victims of homicide and an additional 1,642 visit hospital emergency departments because of physical assault-related injuries. Among high school students, 1 in 4 report being in at least one physical fight and 1 in 5 report being bullied in the last year, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

The CDC views this as a public health crisis. Furthermore, they say there is a disproportionate burden on ethnic and racial minority youth. 

Some of the key prevention strategies the CDC has defined are taking place every day at Fighting Chance.

1. Build children’s and adolescents’ skills and competencies to choose nonviolent, safe behaviors. 

2. Build and maintain positive relationships between young people and caring adults in their community. 

3. Improve and sustain a safe physical environment in communities and create spaces to strengthen social relationships. 

And this is all before you even think about the benefits that exercise -- specifically boxing -- has on mental health and wellness.

I hope I did the gym and these kids justice in these photos. 

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Megan's Head Shots

Anyone that knows Megan knows that she is hilarious, spunky, smart and full of life. Now, how do you capture that EXTREME HIRABILITY in a head shot? This afternoon I set out to find the answer.

Sure there were times when Megan asked me if people would think she was wading in a swamp and I tried too hard to make her smize, but I think we did OK.

I may or may not have left my "get it, girl" sign somewhere in a park in Edina.

I hope I did this amazing ball of energy justice. 

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